Just because "your intentions are good" doesn't mean you aren't causing harm.
When someone you love, or even just like, suffers a loss, it can be hard to know what to say to them. Which is silly. There actually are PLENTY of things you can say to them that will help. And there are plenty of things you can say that basically mean, "Fuck you."
2 Comments
Valentine's Day is right around the corner -- but it doesn't matter! My Eva Via original duet, Year-Round Valentine, is about how, when you're in love, every day can feel like Valentine's Day. Even Valentine's Day.
As anyone who follows my blog or Facebook knows, the two posts that consistently get the most views per month are
What Men Don't Understand When They Complain, "It's Only Creepy If The Guy Isn't Hot and "Creepy" Isn't About Attractiveness. It's About Reciprocity. Due to these posts, I get a handful of private notes and comments thanking me for my encouragement and advice (some formerly creepy guys even have girlfriends now!)... and dozens of butthurt, defensive incels who are mad that I'd give them some basic advice about how to not come across as creepy.
Just a muscle man shirt ($20) and a navy blue one-piece ($20-$40) and you're set.
I don't always use my Halloween costume to make a political statement. Sure, I've gone as Sandra Fluke and microaggressions. I even went as the Little Mermaid -- beforeâ it was controversial! But I've also gone as Bethany Hamilton (a disabled female surfer I admire) and a spoonbill, just because I like them. But in 2022, women's rights are under attack in a profound way -- and that attack is coming from the regressive left. Which is why this is the year to poke fun at anti-woman activists who want to erase women's sex-based rights, sports, and female-only spaces.
Rocking my favorite white jeans on Chincoteague Island. Image: @TheHappyTalent
I really shouldn't do this, but I'm going to let you in on a super top secret girl secret: No, women do NOT want pants with pockets. I spend enough time mountain biking, camping, and surfing, that people assume I'm not a "Disney person." The truth is, I freaking love Disney. As someone who loves music, art, playfulness, psychology, engineering, and business, how could I not be in awe of the magic of this place? But I did have one experience during my last visit to Disney that was not quite so magical. |
About the Author
![]() Eva is a content specialist with a passion for play, travel... and a little bit of girl power. Read more >
Want to support The Happy Talent? CLICK HERE!
Or Find me on Patreon!
What's Popular on The Happy Talent:
Trending in Dating and Relationships:
What's Popular in Science: Playfulness and Leisure Skills:
Popular in Psychology and Social Skills:
Categories
All
|