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Why I Dressed as Microaggressions for Halloween

11/9/2015

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Last week was Halloween, and, as per my usual custom, I wore a different costume to every party. For the rock wall party, I wanted to be someone with only one arm -- I had a tremendous finger injury recently, and can only climb with my left arm, so it seemed fitting. The obvious choice was Bethany Hamilton, a total major badass who has continued surfing after losing an arm to a shark. What an inspiration! 
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For my next party, I was Cruella de Vil, and Ruby Snoofer was a dalmatian.
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But for my last costume, I wanted to make a statement. Ever since reading The Coddling of the American Mind last September, I've been concerned about free speech, discourse and mental health in America. Then, after being banned from commenting on Everyday Feminism's social media for politely disagreeing with one of their posts, I published Everyday Feminism is a Joke and No One Should Ever Read It. In it, I wrote,
Everyday Feminism. Nassim Nicholas Taleb. And people/publications like you. You have a responsibility. I'm all for banning bullies and spammers from commenting on your social media. But it's cowardly to block everyone who disagrees with you because they disagree with you.

Maybe instead of doing that... you should only post articles that you can support with data. Or, at the very least, agree to disagree. Stand up for what you believe in -- and encourage your readers to do the same! Just please, stop fostering narrow-mindedness and victimhood culture. 
If Everyday Feminism has a responsibility to its readers, then educational institutions like Yale and Stanford have one to their students -- to ask them challenging and thought-provoking questions. To expand their worldview and build their life skills. But it's gotten to the point that, in the words of Professor Edward Schlosser (who writes under a pseudonym to protect himself), I'm a liberal professor, and my liberal students terrify me.
I have intentionally adjusted my teaching materials as the political winds have shifted. (I also make sure all my remotely offensive or challenging opinions, such as this article, are expressed either anonymously or pseudonymously). Most of my colleagues who still have jobs have done the same. We've seen bad things happen to too many good teachers — adjuncts getting axed because their evaluations dipped below a 3.0, grad students being removed from classes after a single student complaint, and so on.

I once saw an adjunct not get his contract renewed after students complained that he exposed them to "offensive" texts written by Edward Said and Mark Twain.  That was enough to get me to comb through my syllabi and cut out anything I could see upsetting a coddled undergrad, texts ranging from Upton Sinclair to Maureen Tkacik — and I wasn't the only one who made adjustments, either.
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I am frightened by the thought that a student would complain, accusing me not of saying something too ideologically extreme — be it communism or racism or whatever — but of not being sensitive enough toward his feelings, of some simple act of indelicacy that's considered tantamount to physical assault. As Northwestern University professor Laura Kipnis writes, "Emotional discomfort is [now] regarded as equivalent to material injury, and all injuries have to be remediated." Hurting a student's feelings, even in the course of instruction that is absolutely appropriate and respectful, can now get a teacher into serious trouble.
​Students are no longer getting the education they once were, in the name of "protection," of "creating a safe space" and never offending anyone, ever. Obvious implications of this aside, everyone who knows me knows that empowerment is my "thing." In fact, in a recent post, I shared my Quora bio: ​
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​Empowerment is important. Pretty much every study in the history of psychology research shows that empowerment and taking accountability will result in improved mental and physical health -- as well as increased happiness, job satisfaction and longevity. 

Yet schools across the nation are increasingly becoming slaves to students' emotions. It's not empowering -- it's enabling! Law students are asking their schools not to teach rape law, lest it upset students. In one case, students petitioned against the use of the word "violate" (as in, "it violates the law"), because the word could be "triggering." Questions such as, "Where are you from?" have been banned -- as well as opinions like, "I believe the most qualified person should get the job."

Which is why I felt like it was almost my responsibility to dress as microaggressions for Halloween.
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The gist of it was this: a little outfit, a magnifying glass necklace, and little labels with outrageously inoffensive "microaggressions" that have been banned or criticized in real life, including:
  • "I believe that anyone can succeed."
  • "Where are you from?"
  • "America is a melting pot."
  • "I believe that the most qualified person should get the job."
  • 18-inch airplane seats
  • Looking at a woman's ring finger
  • Opinions that disagree with mine
  • Objectivity
(Obviously, there are some microaggressions that are pretty shitty -- e.g., "No, where are you really from?" For obvious reasons, I did not include those on my costume. I believe that if an objective third party would find it offensive, it didn't belong on my costume. My costume was about extreme subjectivity, victimhood culture and students' unwillingness to confront opinions that are different from theirs, not about actual racism/sexism/etc. After all, as a woman, I face very real aggressions and microaggressions every day -- they totally suck, but I deal with them.)   

My date, in case it wasn't clear from the photo, was a trigger warning. We were both inspired by the Atlantic piece, and are both appalled by the anti-science movement. So we tried to get a group together, in which one person would dress as censorship (they'd look naked, but with either black or pixelated boxes over their junk), and another, more abstract pair would dress as BDSM, with the sub wearing a sign that said "Logic and Reason" and the dom wearing one that said "EMOTIONS!"

But no one wanted to dress up with us, because they, like so many college professors, were afraid their lives would be ruined by social justice warriors -- which, as Jon Ronson demonstrates in his bestselling book, So You've Been Publicly Shamed, is traumatizing and terrifying and definitely not something I would wish on someone whose only crime was a stupid tweet or Halloween costume.

Justin and I got off easy -- whether due to low public awareness (I think our peer group might be just a little older than the one that's invested so heavily in victimhood culture), or poor execution of our costumes (I never said I was an artist...), about 99% of people did not know what victimhood culture, microaggressions and trigger warnings were, and no one got offended at us.

I'd've thought more people would get it... and I thought it might trigger (pun intended) some interesting conversations. 

Kind of like what Yale Professor Erika Christakis thought would happen when she sent the following email to students in her college:
Dear Sillimanders:

Nicholas and I have heard from a number of students who were frustrated by the mass email sent to the student body about appropriate Halloween-wear. I’ve always found Halloween an interesting embodiment of more general adult worries about young people. As some of you may be aware, I teach a class on “The Concept of the Problem Child,” and I was speaking with some of my students yesterday about the ways in which Halloween – traditionally a day of subversion for children and young people – is also an occasion for adults to exert their control.

When I was young, adults were freaked out by the specter of Halloween candy poisoned by lunatics, or spiked with razor blades (despite the absence of a single recorded case of such an event). Now, we’ve grown to fear the sugary candy itself. And this year, we seem afraid that college students are unable to decide how to dress themselves on Halloween.
I don’t wish to trivialize genuine concerns about cultural and personal representation, and other challenges to our lived experience in a plural community. I know that many decent people have proposed guidelines on Halloween costumes from a spirit of avoiding hurt and offense. I laud those goals, in theory, as most of us do. But in practice, I wonder if we should reflect more transparently, as a community, on the consequences of an institutional (which is to say: bureaucratic and administrative) exercise of implied control over college students.

It seems to me that we can have this discussion of costumes on many levels: we can talk about complex issues of identify, free speech, cultural appropriation, and virtue “signalling.” But I wanted to share my thoughts with you from a totally different angle, as an educator concerned with the developmental stages of childhood and young adulthood.

As a former preschool teacher, for example, it is hard for me to give credence to a claim that there is something objectionably “appropriative” about a blonde-haired child’s wanting to be Mulan for a day. Pretend play is the foundation of most cognitive tasks, and it seems to me that we want to be in the business of encouraging the exercise of imagination, not constraining it. I suppose we could agree that there is a difference between fantasizing about an individual character vs. appropriating a culture, wholesale, the latter of which could be seen as (tacky)(offensive)(jejeune)(hurtful), take your pick. But, then, I wonder what is the statute of limitations on dreaming of dressing as Tiana the Frog Princess if you aren’t a black girl from New Orleans? Is it okay if you are eight, but not 18? I don’t know the answer to these questions; they seem unanswerable. Or at the least, they put us on slippery terrain that I, for one, prefer not to cross.
Which is my point. I don’t, actually, trust myself to foist my Halloweenish standards and motives on others. I can’t defend them anymore than you could defend yours. Why do we dress up on Halloween, anyway? Should we start explaining that too? I’ve always been a good mimic and I enjoy accents. I love to travel, too, and have been to every continent but Antarctica. When I lived in Bangladesh, I bought a sari because it was beautiful, even though I looked stupid in it and never wore it once. Am I fetishizing and appropriating others’ cultural experiences? Probably. But I really, really like them too.

Even if we could agree on how to avoid offense – and I’ll note that no one around campus seems overly concerned about the offense taken by religiously conservative folks to skin-revealing costumes – I wonder, and I am not trying to be provocative: Is there no room anymore for a child or young person to be a little bit obnoxious… a little bit inappropriate or provocative or, yes, offensive? American universities were once a safe space not only for maturation but also for a certain regressive, or even transgressive, experience; increasingly, it seems, they have become places of censure and prohibition. And the censure and prohibition come from above, not from yourselves! Are we all okay with this transfer of power? Have we lost faith in young people’s capacity – in your capacity – to exercise self-censure, through social norming, and also in your capacity to ignore or reject things that trouble you? We tend to view this shift from individual to institutional agency as a tradeoff between libertarian vs. liberal values (“liberal” in the American, not European sense of the word).
Nicholas says, if you don’t like a costume someone is wearing, look away, or tell them you are offended. Talk to each other. Free speech and the ability to tolerate offense are the hallmarks of a free and open society.

But – again, speaking as a child development specialist – I think there might be something missing in our discourse about the exercise of free speech (including how we dress ourselves) on campus, and it is this: What does this debate about Halloween costumes say about our view of young adults, of their strength and judgment?

In other words: Whose business is it to control the forms of costumes of young people? It’s not mine, I know that.

Happy Halloween.

Yours sincerely,
Erika
What a fascinating and thought-provoking email! I had never read anything from the preschool teacher/education expert's point of view regarding Halloween costumes. Not to mention some of the insights offered in Christakis's published works, including Why Birth Control Matters for the American Dream, The Argument You Don't Hear About Birth Control in Schools, What is the Goal of Parenting?, Why Today's College Students Need a Class In Dating, and The Importance of Being Little: What Preschoolers Really Need From Grownups.

But instead of being like, "Oh, that is an interesting perspective -- I disagree, though. Here's what I see as the difference between an 8-year-old and an 18-year-old blonde girl dressing as Mulan," students at Yale are just kind of like:
"THIS IS NOT ABOUT CREATING AN INTELLECTUAL SPACE! IT IS NOT." (In addition to lots of personal insults and f-bombs. I wonder how that would fly in the workplace...)
Another student wrote in the Yale Herald, "I don’t want to debate. I want to talk about my pain."

It is clear from the above video that students do, in fact, feel a lot of pain. But it's hard to understand why Christakis's email made anyone feel unsafe. After all, she explicitly said,
I don’t wish to trivialize genuine concerns about cultural and personal representation, and other challenges to our lived experience in a plural community. I know that many decent people have proposed guidelines on Halloween costumes from a spirit of avoiding hurt and offense. I laud those goals, in theory, as most of us do. ​
To me, it is awesome that someone as busy as she would take time out of her day to start a discussion with her residents. As an intellectual, and as someone who values free speech, I guess she thought it would be valuable for students to... you know. Confront ideas they disagree with. Try to come up with some kind of solution to a question that clearly has no right answer. The sort of thing grownups are expected to do in the real world.

I would have loved to see a conversation about how students from certain religions might feel uncomfortable around students who are showing a lot of skin -- but, for some reason, we don't care about that. We care that our peers not wear headdresses, because it might make Native American students uncomfortable... but we don't worry that, in some students' culture, it is highly inappropriate or offensive to see a woman's skin.

Because I'm all about feminism and girl power and stuff. And, one time, I got an email from an admin in a building I worked in saying that, "due to one man's religion," women should make sure their shorts are knee-length, or something ridiculous. And my response was resoundingly, "Fuck that guy. If he can't look at the skin above my knee without having perverted thoughts, that's his problem. He should take it up with God." And obviously, I wore the shortest dress possible the next morning. How dare some anonymous religious dude try to control how I dress?

Yet last year, when I dressed as Sexy Allen Iverson for Halloween:
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I spent a long time worrying about it. "Okay, I get that I'm not supposed to dress as a culture... but what about a specific athlete I admire, who also happens to be Black?" I asked around... and couldn't get a clear consensus. Some people said that a white person should never, ever dress as a black person no matter what. But to me, that doesn't make sense... Why can't I admire someone who is Black or Asian? 

This year, when I dressed as Bethany Hamilton, I worried that people would attack me for being an ableist or something. But why can't I admire a badass surfer chick who only has one arm? Why can't I admire someone who has taught us so much about psychology? 

Even if either of these costumes were slightly subjectively offensive... is that really enough to make someone feel unsafe? According to The Washington Post, yes. Yes it is. As per The New Intolerance of Student Activism,
According to the Washington Post, “several students in Silliman said they cannot bear to live in the college anymore.” These are young people who live in safe, heated buildings with two Steinway grand pianos, an indoor basketball court, a courtyard with hammocks and picnic tables, a computer lab, a dance studio, a gym, a movie theater, a film editing lab, billiard tables, an art gallery, and four music practice rooms. But they can’t bear this setting that millions of people would risk their lives to inhabit because one woman wrote an email that hurt their feelings?

Another Silliman resident declared in a campus publication, “This email and the subsequent reaction to it have interrupted [our] lives. I have friends who are not going to class, who are not doing their homework, who are losing sleep, who are skipping meals, and who are having breakdowns.” One feels for these students. But if an email about Halloween costumes has them skipping class and suffering breakdowns, either they need help from mental-health professionals or they’ve been grievously ill-served by debilitating ideological notions they’ve acquired about what ought to cause them pain...

As students saw it, their pain ought to have been the decisive factor in determining the acceptability of the Halloween email. They thought their request for an apology ought to have been sufficient to secure one. Who taught them that it is righteous to pillory faculty for failing to validate their feelings, as if disagreement is tantamount to disrespect? Their mindset is anti-diversity, anti-pluralism, and anti-tolerance, a seeming data-point in favor of April Kelly-Woessner’s provocative argument that “young people today are less politically tolerant than their parents’ generation.”
The post continues, 
The most recent incident occurred over the weekend. During a conference on freedom of speech, Greg Lukianoff reportedly said, “Looking at the reaction to Erika Christakis’s email, you would have thought someone wiped out an entire Indian village.” An attendee posted that quote to Facebook. “The online Facebook post led a group of Native American women, other students of color and their supporters to protest the conference in an impromptu gathering outside of LC 102, where the Buckley event was taking place,” the Yale Daily News reported.

A bit later the protesters disgraced themselves (emphasis added):

Around 5:45 p.m., as attendees began to leave the conference, students outside chanted the phrase “Genocide is not a joke” and held up written signs of the same words. Taking Howard’s reminder into account, protesters formed a clear path through which attendants could leave. A large group of students eventually gathered outside of the building on High Street. According to Buckley fellows present during the conference, several attendees were spat on as they left. One Buckley fellow said he was spat on and called a racist. Another, who is a minority himself, said he has been labeled a “traitor” by several fellow minority students. Both asked to remain anonymous because they were afraid of attracting backlash.
So much bullying! All because of an email about Halloween costumes. Halloween costumes! Yet Obama himself says that college students should not be "coddled."
I’ve heard of some college campuses where they don’t want to have a guest speaker who is too conservative, or they don’t want to read a book if it had language that is offensive to African Americans or somehow sends a demeaning signal towards women. I’ve got to tell you, I don’t agree with that either -- that you when you become students at colleges, you have to be coddled and protected from different points of view. Anybody who comes to speak to you and you disagree with, you should have an argument with them, but you shouldn’t silence them by saying you can’t come because I’m too sensitive to hear what you have to say.
But let's go back to empowerment for a second. Like I previously said, empowerment is the greatest thing ever -- whether you're an oppressed minority, a survivor of an assault, a depressed person, or anything else. It's also the fastest way to get poor communities out of poverty.

Related to empowerment is autonomy. Our desire to make our own choices and solve our own problems is hardwired. When employees feel they don't have control over their work schedule or job, they hate their job. When people feel like they don't have control over their lives, they hate their lives. When old people in nursing homes feel like they have more control over their lives, they don't die. Autonomy is that important to our health and happiness. 

Victimhood culture is characterized by helplessness, and people would almost certainly be better off if they found ways to empower themselves and establish autonomy, rather than feeling victimized and offended. Instead of trying to strip others of their autonomy, forcing apologies and resignations whenever you're offended... reframe your thinking. And maybe engage with ideas that are different from yours. I do -- and, as a result, my thoughts and ideas are changing all the time.

I leave you with this:
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UPDATE: This is satire. But isn't it sad that we've gotten to the point where it's unclear?
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Zeph
11/15/2016 05:14:17 pm

Wow, that last poster was really outrageous. I was in shock for a moment; have we really sunk that low? I was considering promoting it in other venues as a bad example of how far folks go.

But as I am wont to do, I check things out before I propagate them (or get my adrenals in high gear). From Snopes I find that it was a satirical poster parodying those attitudes, not a real manifestation of them. And while they found it reposted with critical comments in various places, they didn't find anybody who actually planned to post it in the real world, or who advocated for it.

So it's a good and pointed parody, but it is important to label it as such, rather than implying it is real.

And alas, many of the other things you quote are all too real.

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Eva Glasrud link
11/16/2016 09:24:21 am

Thanks for the feedback! It's bad when we get to the point where it's so hard to distinguish satire from reality. I'll add in a label. :)

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John
11/15/2017 12:37:12 am

Haha, nice save.

tom F
3/4/2017 07:04:57 am

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Cheryl H.
5/6/2017 08:23:30 pm

Interesting questions that I am glad to see raised. I admit, for awhile I thought complaints about free speech on US college campuses was overblown and of the ilk I remembered from my time in college in the 90s: when people freaked out about changing words like "chairmen" into "chairperson" was an egregious cow towing to feminists (around the time I started hearing "feminazi" from Limbaugh and his ilk).

But, the landscape is different today, I've been forced to admit after reading one too many stories about absurd over reactions. And yet, in other parts of our world there are still really glaring examples of racism and sexism. And we'll, let's not forget that there's still so much racism/sexism in academia. But something is broken about the way we are dealing with these undesirable elements in our society and I fear "call out culture" is only making things worse.

Anyway, I have read a few of your articles now and have really enjoyed them... I actually got here by finding the articles about Everday Feminism, who I also loathe. It is tough finding writers who are simultaneously critical of current trends in feminist thought who don't identify as "anti-feminist". Thanks and I hope you continue to write more articles in this vein.

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John
11/15/2017 12:42:51 am

I find your multiple references to the perspective of a hypothetical "objective third party" incredibly interesting. To me, such a thing seems like a complete fiction. Rather, it reads as a way for you to justify behavior that isn't "objectively" harmful from your own perspective. Just curious as to the source of this objectivity? And what's the process by which you objectively evaluate a statement to test it for TRULY offensive or harmful content?

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Eva Glasrud link
11/16/2017 02:29:25 pm

Fair point -- I talk about objectivity like it's all-or-nothing, when, in reality, I'm sure it exists more on a spectrum. I try to be objective when assessing news, research, and social issues. I try to remind myself that just because I don't like something, doesn't mean it's not true and to look for holes in methods and arguments.

In the case of the "objective third party"... to give an extreme example, I once read a blog post written by a woman who is triggered by apples. (She says she was sexually assaulted in a way that involved apples, and they are now triggering for her.) To her, dressing as an apple (or Adam and Eve, or Snow White) could be offensive. But to an objective third party, surely this is completely inoffensive, right?

I guess it's funny to say "objective third party" about something that is, by its nature, subjective. IS it offensive to dress as "A Mexican"? I think intention has a lot to do with it.

I borrowed the concept from a standard that used to be used in sexual harassment cases. Would an objective, rational person find this offensive/threatening? Again, it's not possible to be completely objective... but you can actively try.

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holiday shirts link
10/22/2023 02:18:55 pm

Your thoughtful approach to objectivity and considering multiple perspectives is commendable. It's true that objectivity often exists on a spectrum, and maintaining it can be a complex endeavor. Your willingness to look beyond personal biases and emotions when assessing news, research, and social issues is a valuable skill in today's world.

The example you provide about the person triggered by apples illustrates the intricate nature of subjectivity and how individual experiences can profoundly affect perceptions. What may seem inoffensive to an objective third party can hold entirely different connotations to someone with a unique background or traumatic experiences. Intent certainly plays a significant role in these situations.

Using the concept of an "objective third party" as a reference point for evaluating potentially offensive situations, while acknowledging its inherent subjectivity, is a useful approach to fostering understanding and empathy. Your consideration of intention and the effort to actively strive for objectivity are crucial in navigating complex issues and conversations. Thank you for sharing your perspective! 🤔👏

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